The Modern Marriage: Exploring Equitable Division of Labor Agreements

Creating A Different System Than What Was Modeled For You

Helping partners develop collaborative agreements around domestic and caregiving tasks means supporting couples in mapping the full landscape of their shared life—household management, parenting responsibilities, logistics, emotional labor, and the often-unseen tasks that tend to go unspoken. We get curious about what feels fair, what feels overwhelming, and where assumptions or needs may differ. From there, we co-create clear, sustainable agreements about how responsibilities will be shared in a way that honors each person’s capacity, work demands, neurobiology, and personal rhythms.

This work is not about striving for a perfect “50/50.” It’s about building a system that feels equitable, reduces resentment, increases clarity, and strengthens connection.

You don’t have to navigate this alone. We can create the conditions for clarity, collaboration, and growth.